10 Jun 2016

Remembering

Submitted by Damselfly

When I was in my early 20’s, I lived in Virginia.  I was on a visit “home”, and my dad and a dear friend of his were going fly fishing behind the house.  (Being raised on a trout stream is yet another story!)  They asked me if I wanted to join them.  At that point, I had better things to do than fish, but enjoyed being outside, so agreed that a walk along the stream would be nice.

Even though it was many years ago, I vividly remember walking along the bank while they waded the water.  The stream rolled gently by, so the water was quiet, allowing us to chatter while they fished.  I had seen my dad fish many times.  I had fished with him all of my life, starting at about 5 years of age when he first put a rod in my hand and taught me to trick fish with corn kernels and worms.  But I had never really watched him fly fish.

I watched as Light Cahill mayflies did their up-and-down dance just along the top of the water.  I watched the rhythmic casting of the fly rods.  I watched as the men cast the fly on the line back and forth, back and forth, then allowed it to gently drop to the surface of the water… and drift. 

SPLASH!

A brown trout came tearing to the surface of the water, sucking the presented dry fly into its mouth, and greedily turned its head down for a run.  The rod bent, the line was tight, and after a few moments, the gorgeous trout with bold spots and bright gold belly was brought to hand, admired, and released gently back into the water. 

I was hooked.

Fast forward through the years. 

I learned to tie flies.  I became addicted to finding the right materials, the best tools, books and videos, and have a room full of my addiction to show for it!  I have been blessed to share my passion with others through demonstration circuits across the globe.  I have developed an amazing network of people who, once friends, are now my fly fishing family. Life as not always allowed me to get out and fish. 

I continue to tie flies.  When I sit at the bench and lash fur and feather to hook, it sends me back to that one day on the stream. 

This has been the link to my father.  This is the passion we both shared.  I tied his flies, we fished, we joked.  We connected.  He has been gone nine years now, but he is still with me.

I will continue to embrace my passion for fly fishing, in all its facets… and I will remember.

Comments

Hi miss Kim,

Your "remembering" blog post today brought about a bit of remembering on my part. I remember, fondly, the afternoon/supper/evening at your parent's house. The welcome was warm, the food excellent, the company superb - great hospitality and warmth shown to this lowlands visitor ;-)
I remember the stream bordering the back yard, and the bit of shooting practice drilling a few holes in a poor defenseless coke can.

I too remember ;-)

Cheers,
Hans

PS Congrats on getting your web site up and running. It is off to a great start for sure!

What a wonderful job! You draw the reader in and surround them with your moment. I appreciate the stories because I've known you for a hundred years... And I smile deeply when I am whisked back...
Thank You!

Thank you Braden & Hans for your kind comments & support. I am blessed to have you in my world :-) Thank you for remembering!!

Wow, now I have something enjoyable to read and that will make me smile. You are the best!!

Thanks Hoovie!!! :-)

The very nice reading.

Best regards
Sven

Thank you Sven!

Nice one Damselfly!
F

Thanks Fish!! :-)

Hello Kim,

What a great blog you have! :-)

Reading Hans' post also reminded me of my visit in '05. I too enjoyed the wonderful company of you and your family and enjoyed a great meal and lots of laughs. I recall your dad's wonderful dry sense of humour too and having great fun practising our casting on the back lawn.

Fond memories.

Dave Cameron

Ha! Ha!! Thank you Cammo! I too vividly remember your trip. So happy you could relate to the post, and remember such a fun holiday! Hoping for many more to come...

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